Now that D-Day is approaching (which is August 1, the day the tenant moves into our house), I'm getting pretty depressed about the whole ordeal.
My thoughts recently have pretty much revolved around this. I keep comparing our situation to that of friends who made better financial choices, and I just beat myself up with "if only..."
As my thoughts wander (I have a lot of time to think while I'm breastfeeding), I sometimes dream of the "ultimate" situation in which we could move into a sweet apartment and keep all of our stuff and then get our student loans paid off super fast so that we could move back into our house in just a couple of years instead of four. But my conclusion is always "Why would we be blessed like that when we have been so negligent?" Basically, we don't deserve that kind of blessing. We had our time to do things the right way, and we didn't. Now we'll just have to work with what we can, do what we can do, and be open to learning what God has in store for us.
But God always shows me his perspective. I was playing with Savannah yesterday when it clicked. I was having one of those parental moments in which you stare at your child in awe of how amazing he/she is. God plainly told me that I AM blessed. As in the present--I am currently being blessed. My marriage is a blessing. My child--just her mere existence--is a blessing. My family and incredible friends are all blessings in my life. And most importantly my salvation is a blessing. When I think about how Jesus' sacrifice covers my sins--really think about it--I don't understand it. Why would God choose to do that? Why would he sacrifice his son to save me? When I slam the steering wheel in anger at the long red light, I am reminded of my sin. When I speak condescendingly to my husband, I am reminded of my sin. When I laugh along with a comedian's racial/sexual/immoral joke, I am reminded of my sin. His sacrifice far exceeds the debt I owe. I certainly do not deserve Christ's sacrifice, but I know I am blessed beyond measure to have received it.
In the past three months, I have realized that I will never, in any way, ever be able to express to Savannah how much I love her. I doubt she will ever know the extent to which I love her until she has her own child. I can glimpse God's perspective in this--how his love far exceeds anything we can ever fathom. Those who believe in him are "sealed with the promised Holy Spirit, who is the down payment of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it" (Ephesians 1:13-14). And when I get bogged down in the mundane, worrying about my situation, I can look at the Cross and sing with thankfulness that he has showered me with his grace.
Before the throne of God above
I have a strong, a perfect plea:
A great High Priest, whose name is Love,
Who ever lives and pleads for me.
My name is graven on his hands,
My name is written on his heart;
I know that while in heaven he stands
No tongue can bid me thence depart
No tongue can bid me thence depart.
When Satan tempts me to despair,
And tells me of the guilt within,
Upward I look, and see him there
Who made an end of all my sin.
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/s/shane_and_shane/before_the_throne_of_god_above.html ]
Because a sinless Savior died,
My sinful soul is counted free;
For God, the Just, is satisfied
To look on Him and pardon me
To look on Him and pardon me
Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Praise the One,
Risen Son of God!
Behold him there, the risen Lamb
My perfect, spotless righteousness,
The great unchangeable I am,
The King of glory and of grace!
One in himself, I cannot die
My soul is purchased by his blood
My life is hid with Christ on high,
With Christ, my Savior and my God
With Christ, my Savior and my God
I have a strong, a perfect plea:
A great High Priest, whose name is Love,
Who ever lives and pleads for me.
My name is graven on his hands,
My name is written on his heart;
I know that while in heaven he stands
No tongue can bid me thence depart
No tongue can bid me thence depart.
When Satan tempts me to despair,
And tells me of the guilt within,
Upward I look, and see him there
Who made an end of all my sin.
[ Lyrics from: http://www.lyricsmode.com/lyrics/s/shane_and_shane/before_the_throne_of_god_above.html ]
Because a sinless Savior died,
My sinful soul is counted free;
For God, the Just, is satisfied
To look on Him and pardon me
To look on Him and pardon me
Hallelujah! Hallelujah! Praise the One,
Risen Son of God!
Behold him there, the risen Lamb
My perfect, spotless righteousness,
The great unchangeable I am,
The King of glory and of grace!
One in himself, I cannot die
My soul is purchased by his blood
My life is hid with Christ on high,
With Christ, my Savior and my God
With Christ, my Savior and my God
lyrics by Shane and Shane